I didn’t cancel. You may have missed the part where I said I am owning my mistake.Inxie wrote: ↑06 Sep 2020, 21:09After reading the back and forth here, OP is the prime example I refuse to sell on eBay, because people don't READ THE DESCRIPTION when I ask them too. No, you are in a binding contract to pay, if you pull out and screw the seller over, you are going to be at fault on the legal side of things, and the seller has every right then to go after you to collect. It was YOUR fault for not reading and now you need to suck it up and buy the computer. Re-sell the computer then or something that's fine, but he has every right to not cancel it either as per eBay's rules.
Sorry but I don't cater to people who dig their own graves then whine about it because they aren't getting a refund. It's your fault, own up to it.
Also, when I sold on eBay, when someone cancels like that, it punishes the seller, and we have to pay out of our own pocket (does eBay still not charge you for listings?). Either way, it's his right and he's clearly covering his behind because he knows you cancelling would punish him, and not you and that's not "ethically right" either. Catch my drift? You think it's not ethically right against yourself, but it wouldn't be ethically right for you to punish him either. Goes both ways.
Sounds like you may have had a bad experience with buyers on the past who have a lack of integrity. Sorry about that. That’s not me. I try to shoot people straight.
While in a vacuum I would agree with you, in the past the seller has tried to deceive people. Yes I should have double checked but that doesn’t change the fact that he’s trying to take advantage.